Can we stop blowing things up to announce the genitals of an unborn baby now?
Gender reveal parties have become an exciting milestone for many expecting parents, who use confetti-filled balloons or colourful cakes to find out and share their unborn babies’ “gender” (it’s actually baby’s sex, based on their genitals). But for some reason (cough, social media, cough), a growing number of moms- and dads-to-be are opting for increasingly over-the-top and dangerous ways to share the news—sometimes ending in injury and, in the worst cases, death.
Even Jenna Karvunidis, the woman credited with having the first gender reveal party ever in 2008, now says she regrets starting the craze—especially since the daughter she feted with a pink cake all those years ago now prefers to wear suits.
In recent years, gender reveal parties have caused plane crashes, horrific explosions and deadly wildfires—which may be a good indication that it’s time to move away from extravagant announcements (or maybe even the whole concept of pegging a gender on an unborn baby!). Not only do they put an unnecessary emphasis on an unborn child’s gender, but no party is worth the loss of one of the unborn baby’s relatives.
Here’s a roundup of seven gender reveal parties that have ended in unnecessary damage, injury and tragedy.
Explosion in New Hampshire, 2021
The most recent gender reveal disaster happened in Kingston, New Hampshire, when 80 pounds of explosives were detonated. No one was injured, but the explosion caused the foundation of neighbouring homes to shake and form cracks in the walls.
Bomb-building in New York, 2021
When a father-to-be and his brother were building an explosive device to be used at the gender reveal party for his new baby, it malfunctioned. The father was tragically killed and his brother sustained serious injuries.
Plane crash in Cancun, Mexico, 2021
Family and friends gathered on a boat on Nichupte Lagoon off Cancun to watch as a plane flew above the water, trailing a sign saying “It’s a girl!” Excitement quickly turned to horror when the plane nose-dived into the ocean, killing both the pilot and co-pilot. The exact cause of the disaster is still under investigation.
Forest fires in El Dorado, California, 2020
A pyrotechnic device being used for this big announcement, combined with the hot and dry California climate, was a recipe for disaster. This gender reveal party went up in flames (literally), starting a fire that burned 22,000 acres in California and killed a firefighter.
Pipe bomb explosion in Knoxville, Iowa, 2019
When creating a device to reveal their baby’s gender in a cloud of coloured smoke, this Iowa couple inadvertently built a pipe bomb. The explosion sent metal pieces flying in the air, one of which tragically hit one of the guests and killed her instantly.
Car explosion in Queensland, Australia, 2019
A car emitting blue smoke drove down a road in Australia’s Gold Coast announcing that a boy was on the way. Once the car stopped, however, it burst into flames. Thankfully, no on was injured. The driver was charged with reckless endangerment.
Wildfires in Tucson, Arizona, 2018
This couple used Tannerite to announce their baby’s gender, and just like in Iowa, the kit caused a bigger blast than intended. This explosion ended up burning 45,000 acres of the Green Valley National Forest in Tucson. The father-to-be who built the bomb was ordered to pay over $8 million in damages.